Who am I? My life sucks!

life sucks!

Is this where you are? You feel like you have no control over your life and everything you do turns out wrong. You might be surprised to know that there are a lot of people that say the same thing. “Who am I? My life sucks,” is not uncommon! You are not alone.

Let’s put some things in perspective.

Your life might be pretty bad. I have no way of knowing how bad things are for you. What I do know is that they can improve. I know that no matter how bad things get, two things can happen. One, they can get worse. Two, they can get better. The good news is; you have some say in which one.

Our lives, you life, my life, everyone’s life is made up of what we believe about it, what we think about it and what we do about it. That means you have some control. No, you don’t have control over other people, and really, not even about much of what happens to you. What you do have control over is what you think. You can think that everything is going to hell in a hand basket, or you can think that things are getting better. The choice is yours!

Who are you?

This one is not as hard as you might think. You are the combination of what you believe about yourself, think about yourself, and what you do in life. That’s it! That’s who you are right now today.

Who do you want to be?

That’s a bigger question! Who do you want to be? If you think,” My life sucks,” then my guess is that you don’t want to continue to be who you are. If you really think about it, who do you want to be? What would your life look like if you could be and do anything with no restrictions or limitations? What kind of person would you be? Where would you live? What sort of job would you do?

You see, I know that you can change. I know that you can be whoever and whatever it is you want. The choice is yours. I also know that it might be one of the hardest things you have ever done to change. I also know that once you do, you will feel better than you ever have before. As you become the person you dream about and think about, you will be happier. We all want to be who we were created to be.

Why not live your dreams?

When you have that picture in your mind of who you want to be, why not give it a shot? Why not try to be more like that person. Why not stop wondering, “Who am I?” and know. Why not stop thinking, “My life sucks,” and do something about it? I mean, if your life really sucks, what have you got to lose?

Here’s to You!