• http://communityofchange.blogspot.com/2010/05/strong-positive-self-image-is-best.html Nancy Christie

    You make a lot of good points about how negativity can keep us from achieving our goals or making necessary changes.
    One trick to get us out of that negative attitude rut is to look at what we term “failures” in our past and identify what we learned from that experience. Even when something didn’t turn out the way we hoped, we still gained something from it. We may have learned a new skill, used an aspect of ourselves that we didn’t know we had, or realized that we can and do survive negative outcomes.
    This exercise helps us reframe past events in a more positive light, which will give us the courage to try something now. We realize the only true “failure” is in not trying.

  • Steve

    How true! I used to think that things I did that didn’t work out were failures. I still get caught in that trap now and then. The thing is, they weren’t failures, but chances to learn, and I did learn!