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Do you have self determination?

Self Determination

Self Determination

Do you have self determination? You may be asking yourself what determination even is. The dictionary defines determination as “the act of coming to a decision or of fixing or settling a purpose.” Do you have that?

Do you know what you want?

What is it you want most in life? What are you doing toward achieving that goal? What have you done in the past and what are you planning to do in the near future; the distant future?

I have written enough recently about finding your purpose or your goals. What I want to write about now is having the determination to carry through with whatever it is you have Read the rest of this entry »

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Overcoming Fear: improve your life

Overcoming Fear

Overcoming Fear

Overcoming fear; that’s a tall order for many of us. We develop fears when we are children and carry them with us all through our lives. However, as we work to improve our lives, overcoming fear is not only a good thing, it is an essential thing.

There has been a lot of talk over the last few years about the law of attraction. The law basically states that we attract into Read the rest of this entry »

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Self Improvement: is your life a series of wild adventures

adventure

adventure

One of the reasons we seek self improvement is that our life is not what we want it to be. Instead of our life being a series of wild adventures, living life to the fullest, it is boring at best and one crisis after another at worst.

King of the hill.

I live on a hill. It’s great in the summer. There is always a breeze. In the winter, here in upstate NY, it can be nasty. When there is snow, like today and the plows haven’t been by, and my tires need replacing, it can be tough getting up the hill.

Here is where having a positive attitude makes all the difference in the world. As my car slowly crawled up the hill there were a couple of times that it almost stopped. I thought about backing down the hill and walking up. I know if I had done that, I would have been angry as I walked up the hill. I would have complained about the hill, the snow and how I didn’t know how I would get my car back up to my house.

Instead, I remembered to look at it like an adventure. I made a game out of seeing if I could keep the car moving, if only and inch or two. I zigzagged, I used different gears, I tried letting off the gas and then slowly giving it more. It was a game to see how far I could get. The car now sits in my driveway and I feel like I’m king of the mountain instead of a slave to it.

Where’s your sense of adventure?

As you work at self improvement, try to see life’s ups and downs and opportunities for adventure. I recently heard someone say that there is no avoiding crisis. We are either moving out of crisis, resting from a crisis, or moving into a crisis. Life has a way of happening.

Why let it get to you? I did this for years and I can tell you it never did me any good. Look at is as an adventure. We watch Indiana Jones run through the jungle trying to escape his enemies and think it would be great to have and adventure and then crumble when it snows, or our boss yells at us.

Let the boss incident motivate you to defeat that evil foe by unexpectedly doing the job in a fast and excellent manner. Let the disaster that has befallen you at home be the adventure that brings out the dare-devil or genius in you.

How do you find your sense of adventure?

There is a book that I recommend that helps with this. I will admit that I have not completely read it through, but what I have is good! It is rated quite high on Amazon. The book is called The Tao of Motivation: Inspire Yourself and Others. Check it out and see if this would help you find that sense of adventure in your life (affiliate link). It might be the best $15.00 you ever spent on yourself.

If you never find that sense of your life being a series of wild adventures, will you be doomed to a life of boring mediocrity? Self Improvement means stepping out of your comfort zone enough to experience. I suggest you do!

Here’s to You!

P.S. Have you ever wondered about your personal personality type? Watch for your chance to find out coming here soon!

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What Do You Want From Me?

What do you want from me? This next year is going to be a year of defining and refining this site. I want this site to be what you need it to be. I know what I think, but for this to be truly useful, it has to be what you want and need.

What sort of posts do you want? Do you want “how to” posts or would you prefer something else? The “how to” posts are probably Read the rest of this entry »

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Self Improvement: a new life in a new year

A New You

A New You

In just a few days, we will be in a new year, a new decade. As we look to the new year, why not look forward to who and what we want to be. Self improvement is all about becoming who we want to be. Why not have a new life in the new year?

You may be thinking that having a new life sounds great but there is no way that things are going to be different. You know, with an attitude like that you are absolutely right. Nothing will be different because you don’t expect them to be. We create our realities and the way we think determines our reality.

You also may be thinking that improving your life, having a new you sounds like Read the rest of this entry »

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Self Improvement: quick fix or defining moment

Defining Moment

Defining Moment

In your search for self improvement, are you searching for a quick fix, or a defining moment? Yesterday, I wrote about how change in our lives happens as a process and not the flip of a switch. This is true, there are few instances of quick change, but they are rare. Defining moments can be instantaneous.

What do I mean by defining moments? Usually we think Read the rest of this entry »

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Self Improvement: my life keeps getting better!

Self Improvement

Self Improvement

I was watching a Tony Robbins video and he said something that I thought was pretty good! He was talking about making his life better, changing his life. Then he said something about improving his life. The thought came to me that we sometimes get caught thinking that suddenly our life will change and we will be completely different. That’s not true. In my life, little has changed over night. Most things became better over time. Self improvement about our life getting better; it is not flipping a switch and being someone else.

There are a zillion products out there to help change your life. The thing about these products is Read the rest of this entry »

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Self Improvement Through Getting Outdoors

Today’s post is by guest writer. Eric Stephenson is the proud

Being Outdoors

Being Outdoors

owner of NJCampingInfo.com, a website dedicated to everything camping and all NJ Campgrounds information. I met Eric through SSWT Elite forum. I hope you enjoy his post as much as I did!

What do you get when you add up a Full time job, spouse, two kids, three sports per kid, school work, volunteering, family responsibilities, home maintenance, vehicle maintenance, vacation, financial responsibilities and working towards being a better you?

Stress, stress and lots more STRESS!!!

How do you cope? How do you keep Read the rest of this entry »

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