Feb 18
Cosmic Ordering
If you search around you will find a fair amount of stuff on cosmic ordering. Does cosmic ordering work? It depends on what you mean. I want to be clear that I do not believe in cosmic ordering as a way to order the universe/God to do what you want and then you sit back and wait! I do believe that you can ask for things and Read the rest of this entry »
I want to change my life!
I often hear people say, “I want to change my life.” The problem with this is that they often have no idea what it is they really want to change nor do they want to put out the effort to do so. Life change is possible, but there are some steps.
The first step you have to take for yourself is to decide if Read the rest of this entry »
Your True Self
Do you ever wish you could change your life? You must have thought of it at least once, or you wouldn’t be reading this. Well life change is possible. You may ask yourself the question, “How about finding my true self.” Here is one way you can do it. Read the rest of this entry »
Mind set
Do you know that you really don’t have the mind set you would like to have? Would you like to change that? Cultivating positive mind sets is not as hard as you might think. I’ll give you three steps on how Read the rest of this entry »
Money Making opportunities
No one would argue that the economy is in rough shape and has been for some time now. It has hit some people very hard with layoffs and downsizing. When life look bleak, it is hard to keep up positive thinking, but this is just the time when it is needed most! Positive thinking is a must when looking for money making opportunities in a Read the rest of this entry »
Stand out from the crowd
Is it alright to be yourself? Is it acceptable to feel free to stand out from the crowd? Not only is it alright, it seems it is mandatory. If you refuse to be yourself, you cheat the world of who and what you are.
At bottom every man knows well enough that he is a unique being, only once on this earth; and by no extraordinary chance will such a marvelously picturesque piece of diversity in unity as he is, ever be put together a second time. ~Friedrich Nietzsche
You were born an original. Don’t die a copy. ~John Mason
What if I don’t know who I am?
In some sense, that could be good, but I don’t think it is true for most people. Most of us have some sort of inclination as to who we are, what we stand for, what makes us unique from the crowd. We know, we are just too unsure of ourselves to stand out from that crowd. It takes courage to do so, but when you find that courage, it can be so freeing.
I said that it might be good to not know who you are. The reason I said that is, if you are truly not sure, then the discovery can be a wonderful journey and there is opportunity to build the you that you desire.
You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand. ~Irene C. Kassorla
Many people are not satisfied with who they believe themselves to be. They desire to be more like someone else. Now I am not advocating that you be other than you are, what I am saying is that you have the opportunity to build the characteristics that you desire. You can be more assertive, more productive, happier, whatever it is you like.
Why do I want to risk standing out in the crowd?
Why?
Is life not a hundred times too short for us to stifle ourselves? ~Friedrich Nietzsche
Does that not say it all? Would you prefer to go to the grave regretting an unfulfilled life or knowing that you did all you could, that you were true to your own nature? I know the answer for myself. What is yours?
Certainly there are risks. Some may not accept who you are. Some may criticize you for what you stand for. Do you really care that much? Do you care so much that you would rather be a slave to their wishes than be free in yourself?
Life is short. There are only so many chances to give the world the gift, that’s right, the gift of who and what you are. Why waste a single moment of that time? Why lose sight of the dreams you have, the dreams inspired by Spirit? Why not be yourself and feel free to stand out from the crowd?
Here’s to You!
P.S. Here are a couple of other posts you might find interesting!
Infinite life infinite possibilities
Positive Thinking: is it real?
Motivation
Do you find yourself with no motivation? You can’t get out of bed in the morning and just don’t seem to find a real reason to? This is a problem that many people have. Their life seems to be going no where and they have nothing that sparks that creative urge.
What is the real reason?
If you can’t get out of bed in the morning due to some physical problem, lack of sleep or and illness, then that is something that you need to talk with your physician about.
Many can’t get out of bed simply because they are so unmotivated. There is nothing to get out of bed for. They are unhappy in their work and they are unhappy in their life. Does this sound like you?
Is there hope?
There is always hope that you can change your outlook and find the motivation required to give life the zing it needs to have. Many people have come to a point in their lives where they just could not take it anymore and changed the way they thought and brought themselves back from the dead.
You have to want it though. You have to want to change enough that you are willing to do whatever it takes. Many times the effort needed is greater than the will to do so.
What is your motivation?
What would have to change in your life for you to be excited about it again? Would it be a different job? Maybe is would be a new hobby. Is it a new relationship?
You have to think about it and decide what it is that would make life worth living again. Once you know, you can start taking steps to bring it into your life.
We all have our ups and downs and I am certainly not saying that once you decide on what you want, you will leap out of bed each morning. It might happen, but more than likely you will find days when you still don’t want to get up, but they will be less and it will be far easier to remind yourself of the reason you have to live.
Here’s to You!
Disgruntled
Are you disgruntled? I had to look the word disgruntled up in the dictionary to make sure I knew what it meant. I did. Disgruntled means “displeased and discontented; sulky; peevish;” does that define your life? I know it does for many people Life just has not turned out the way they had dreamed it would. So, this is how to change your life.
Can it change?
The first question might be, can it change? The answer is yes. Until you lie down for that eternal nap and they throw dirt in your face, you have the ability to change.
I know you may have tried before and nothing changed at all, but you can. It takes desire and determination to do it, but it is possible.
How?
The how is a little more complicated. The reason it is complicated is that it is a little different for each person. We are all unique and so, even though the methods are the same, how they are applied can be different.
The first step is to change your thinking. That’s right, it is your thinking that got you into the mess you are in and it is your thinking that will get you out. You may say that it isn’t your thinking, it is the fact that you grew up in poverty and never had a chance to become educated, or that you were molested as a child and it has screwed you up ever since and that is not your thinking.
Yes, it is. What may have happened to you in the past is not your fault or your responsibility, but what you think about them, how you think about them is. You must stop being a victim of your past before you can be the master of your present!
Then what?
Then you decide what it is you want to change. Is it your physical reality, your financial reality, your work reality? What is it that would make life better for you? You must know what it is you want to change. You can’t just say you want to be happier, that may never happen if there is no qualifier to it. Say you want to be happier in your work and you have a direction to go in.
And then?
Then you start working on believing that what you want can actually become reality. If you cannot believe that whatever it is you want will ever come to pass, it never will. You have to have faith.
And then?
Then you start moving toward your goal. You begin to take steps, even if they are small, toward your ultimate goal. Nothing will ever take place without you putting in some effort.
Why be disgruntled with your life? Why live a life that is not what you want? We are not intended to live a disgruntled life. We are meant to live and Infinite life!
Here’s to You!
P.S. Here is a post on living the Infinite Life and what that means.
